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The Letter

0 Comments · Wednesday, January 25, 2006
My girlfriend of three years is a smoker. In the beginning of our relationship, her smoking didn't bother me. I come from a family of smokers, and I used to smoke. But now her smoking is a huge turn  

That Flushing Sound

0 Comments · Wednesday, January 18, 2006
I have a sexual interest in the sounds of men using the toilet. There are several restaurants very close to my home, and I hide a wireless telephone headset in an inconspicuous place in the bathroom  

Is Lust Enough?

0 Comments · Wednesday, January 11, 2006
I'm a married guy with a good job, a wonderful kid, and my wife's a good lady. The problem? Sex. She rarely wants/needs it, and when I can get her in the mood it's the same old, dull routine. Same p  

Caller, Caller?

0 Comments · Wednesday, January 4, 2006
Recently, my boyfriend and I broke up, one reason being his lack of initiative in calling me. After we broke up, I spoke with several of my girlfriends and found out that they, too, have similar tro  

My Sisters Slave

4 Comments · Wednesday, December 28, 2005
My sister, whom I'm quite close with, has been getting into S&M. Recently she announced that she's acquired a slave. After much thought and discussion on the matter, I am still having a very hard ti  

Away In A Manger

0 Comments · Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Lest I be accused of waging a War on Christmas by the pro-Christmas lobby -- oh, whatever would I do if the all-powerful puckerbutts at the American Family Association called for a boycott of Savage  

Being a Callboy

0 Comments · Wednesday, December 14, 2005
Here's my problem: I got fired from my job at the beginning of the summer and, long story short, ended up escorting to pay the bills. Being a callboy in New York turned out to be not nearly as bad a  

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

1 Comments · Wednesday, December 7, 2005
I'm a 23-year-old straight male. Due to a rare autoimmune attack three years ago, I have been indefinitely confined to a wheelchair, paralyzed from the waist down. I was never sexually active before  

Really Mean Friend

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 30, 2005
My boyfriend, Jason, is having problems with a boy named Roger who is obsessed with him. But because Roger is friends with Jason and Jason's friends, Jason won't just tell him off. Roger had the aud  

Relative Danger

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 23, 2005
Am I out of bounds if I try to have a dialogue with my nephew about masturbation? He's 17 years old and I'm 52. I'm also a balanced bisexual male in a good marriage. I masturbate a lot "in private"