I'm in a relationship with a man who recently told me about something he used to do before we met. He is þexible enough to give himself a blowjob, he said, and used to do this often to get him  

Maybe there's nothing women can do about men being "hard-wired" to lust after other people. Maybe all we can expect is for them not to act on that instinct. Maybe we just have to "get over it." But   

My boyfriend looks at porn, and it freaks me out. It's not because I'm jealous but because I'm insecure. I'm sure many of those girls are more attractive than me. In general, Dan, you've been reall  

Between the ages of 13 and 16, I engaged in bestiality with our household pets. I was a horny kid and I guess kind of a freak. It never went beyond oral copulation, and I eventually curtailed the w  

This is probably the least entertaining letter you'll ever get, but I hope it'll make a nice break between snot-suckers and shit-eaters. I'm 18 now, going to college and I think I might be in love.  

In Vegas I made the mistake of telling my "friends" I had an "accident." The girl giving me a lap dance was grinding too hard and I blew my load. Within minutes the nicknames started: Sticky Pants,  

Take a word of advice from a doctoral student of communications at an Ivy League university: If you want your message to stick, you need to repeat it over and over and over. The reactionaries in ou  

I'm a 16-year-old girl with a 17-year-old boyfriend. My boyfriend is religious and strongly against sex before marriage (vaginal, anal or even oral). Recently our making out has lead to "dry humpin  

I gotta say I'm a bit disappointed in you. I've been reading your column for years and you've answered the same question from gay men many times: "How can I hook up with my straight roommate?" Mont  

I'm a 19-year-old girl dating a 21-year-old guy. We've been dating for a year and a half, love each other dearly, have a great time together. In bed the other night, my sweet boyfriend let me put a   

How do you get rid of a sexual fetish? I've got an incest fetish and, while I don't plan on acting on it, it's still very annoying. Second, I was raped by a sibling as a child. Repeatedly. And whil  

Dear Readers: I'm on vacation. I'm actually sitting on the beach as I write these words, knocking back margaritas and watching my boyfriend's tan lines come in. But you know what? I'm still th  

Remember how one time (or maybe two) you warned a guy (while remaining masturbation-positive) not to condition his body to come only in response to a particular kind of stimulation? I believe --