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MAC's Reaction

0 Comments · Wednesday, December 1, 2004
Dear Readers: A few weeks back I printed a letter from Mutilated and Comeless (MAC), a 24-year-old who lost the head of his penis (the glans) in a botched circumcision as an infant. MAC hasn't had a  

The It Problem

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 24, 2004
I'm a female university student who has a question of etiquette. There's a girl I've seen around campus who I recognize from a few years ago ... when "Jane" was a guy. I'm positive that it's the sam  

Getting Back to the good stuff

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 17, 2004
When did your sex advice column become a political column? That's not why I read your column. Please get back to what you do best: fetish sex advice. Get back to peggers and piss drinkers. If I find  

Bush Kills Sex

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 10, 2004
I'm sunk into a depression over the election results. I started out Anyone But Bush but actually came to like John Kerry, which makes his defeat even harder. I feel like I'm looking at four years of  

Lonely Lesbian

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 3, 2004
After much trial and error, it's become abundantly clear to me that I'm a lesbian. My problem is that I'm having a lot of trouble meeting women. I tried dating a friend of mine, but that turned out   

To Snip or not to snip

0 Comments · Wednesday, October 27, 2004
I have a serious problem. I'm pregnant with a boy. At first my husband and I were in agreement that we wouldn't circumcise him. I have read that the foreskin is comparable to a clit -- all the nerve  

Can't Trust This

0 Comments · Wednesday, October 20, 2004
I'm an 18-year-old student. I have trust issues. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, and he's very supportive. I'm not a jealous person or a controlling head case because I have no prob  

It's Not Fast Food

0 Comments · Wednesday, October 13, 2004
I'm a 35-year-old straight male, and my sex drive is all but dead. I find sex tedious and repulsive. The odors of sex disgust me; I find the grunts and positions absurd. Lately, whenever I meet a wo  

It's okay SAUDI

0 Comments · Wednesday, October 6, 2004
I'm a Middle Eastern guy who lived 21 years of my life in that region. This year I came to Canada. The sexual freedom in this country makes you feel more and more inclined to have sex with a girlfri  

I Spy a bad word

0 Comments · Wednesday, September 29, 2004
Dear Readers: The resident word freak at public radio's The Next Big Thing -- the lovely and talented Erin McKean -- regularly challenges writers to use words that might otherwise disappear into obs  

Do you really want to know?

0 Comments · Wednesday, September 22, 2004
I broke up with a long-term girlfriend about two years ago. Last week, while totally drunk, I thought that it would be a great idea to see whether I could still log into her e-mail account, since we  

Don't wander to far from home - You might get lost

0 Comments · Wednesday, September 15, 2004
PLEASE HELP ME. My husband gets off on the voyeur thing. It started out with him watching me and masturbating while I was unaware of his presence. Soon I was wearing daisy dukes at the door (about t  

Help, I can't get out of my straitjacket

0 Comments · Wednesday, September 8, 2004
I'm not sure what to do. I've had a fetish for straitjackets since I was 15 years old. I'm now 35. I've told only two girlfriends about it and absolutely no one else. The last one went along with it  

Once upon a time in band camp Part 2

0 Comments · Wednesday, September 1, 2004
Dear Readers: Last week we were treated to the childhood sexual misconceptions of my male readers -- a shocking number of which involved piss. This week it's the girls' turn.... My grandma on my da  

Once upon a time in band camp

0 Comments · Wednesday, August 25, 2004
A few weeks back, Laughing at Myself Now suggested that I ask my readers to send in letters detailing their childhood misconceptions about sex. It sounded like a good way to lighten my workload, all