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The Brother

0 Comments · Wednesday, June 29, 2005
Not long ago, a certain woman went from being my brother's "fuck buddy" to being his girlfriend. From what I can tell she is GGG (or maybe he is) and they have a creative sex life. I am in my mid-30  

Gay Pride

0 Comments · Wednesday, June 22, 2005
Dear Readers: Just in time for Gay Pride, advice for 15-year-old fags and dykes from grown-up gays and lesbians. Three words: High School Ends. No matter how much life sucks right now, it will get   

What number is the number 18?

0 Comments · Wednesday, June 15, 2005
I'm a 27-year-old female who started teaching high school freshmen three years ago when I was 23. I was closer in age/culture to most of my students than I was to the other teachers. That first year  

Put Your Left Foot Out

0 Comments · Wednesday, June 8, 2005
I'm a straight male foot fetishist and, like any other American male, I regularly Google my fetish. Last night I ran across a Web site promoting foot fetish parties in New York City (www.foot-worshi  

Hello, straight people?

0 Comments · Wednesday, June 1, 2005
You wrote this two weeks ago: "Hello, straight people? Most of you seem content to merely rubberneck while gay people have the shit kicked out of us, and while that's maddening, I suppose it's under  

Am I My Brothers Keeper?

0 Comments · Wednesday, May 25, 2005
I was cruising for sex online and made a date to meet up with two guys for anonymous play. When we arrived at the one guy's apartment, he asked us if we would fuck him bareback. I said no, but the o  

Could I have it already?

0 Comments · Wednesday, May 18, 2005
I am a 26-year-old hetero male, and I recently started hooking up with a new girl. She's very cute and smart, and I'm really attracted to her. During a recent make out session, she informed me that   

The problem?

0 Comments · Wednesday, May 11, 2005
I've been in a relationship with a wonderful man for four months. He treats me better than anyone I've ever been with. (I'm 29.) The problem? I'm very adventurous sexually. I'm a freaky girl. I like  

Twice a week

0 Comments · Wednesday, May 4, 2005
I'm a 25-year-old SWM who lives in a large apartment complex. Over the past several months, the woman who lives upstairs from me has fallen into the habit of coming downstairs once or twice a week a  

Savage Answers

0 Comments · Wednesday, April 27, 2005
Dear readers, I'm proud to finally present my long-delayed column devoted to advice for 15-year-old girls. What do the women who read Savage Love know now that they wish they'd known when they were   

Rent-A-Date Erotics

0 Comments · Wednesday, April 20, 2005
I'm a 20-year-old bi guy with a girlfriend of seven months and a few male friends with benefits (FWBs). I'm happy, but I have a kink and I'm wondering how I could safely explore it. I want to try hu  

Walking Dead

0 Comments · Wednesday, April 13, 2005
I'm a pretty normal guy except for one thing: I'm sexually attracted to zombies. When I was a kid, I loved to watch horror films that featured them. Then as I became a teen, I started to masturbate   

Fit To Be Tied

0 Comments · Wednesday, April 6, 2005
Here's my wah-wah: I'm 20, gay and my boyfriend of eight months is into tying me up. I work out a lot and I have pretty decent muscles, and something about tying me up makes him extra horny, which i  


0 Comments · Wednesday, March 30, 2005
I'm a late-20s straight man in a BDSM relationship with a dominant woman. She enjoys depriving me of orgasms for long periods of time, and she likes to keep me in a male chastity belt. It's a rather  

It's Just 12 Years

0 Comments · Wednesday, March 23, 2005
I'm a 34-year-old woman. I recently became reacquainted with a boyfriend from college, and we write each other daily e-mails. He lives in Alaska and I live on the East Coast. We hadn't seen each oth