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The Letter

0 Comments · Wednesday, January 25, 2006
My girlfriend of three years is a smoker. In the beginning of our relationship, her smoking didn't bother me. I come from a family of smokers, and I used to smoke. But now her smoking is a huge turn  

That Flushing Sound

0 Comments · Wednesday, January 18, 2006
I have a sexual interest in the sounds of men using the toilet. There are several restaurants very close to my home, and I hide a wireless telephone headset in an inconspicuous place in the bathroom  

Is Lust Enough?

0 Comments · Wednesday, January 11, 2006
I'm a married guy with a good job, a wonderful kid, and my wife's a good lady. The problem? Sex. She rarely wants/needs it, and when I can get her in the mood it's the same old, dull routine. Same p  

Caller, Caller?

0 Comments · Wednesday, January 4, 2006
Recently, my boyfriend and I broke up, one reason being his lack of initiative in calling me. After we broke up, I spoke with several of my girlfriends and found out that they, too, have similar tro  

My Sisters Slave

4 Comments · Wednesday, December 28, 2005
My sister, whom I'm quite close with, has been getting into S&M. Recently she announced that she's acquired a slave. After much thought and discussion on the matter, I am still having a very hard ti  

Away In A Manger

0 Comments · Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Lest I be accused of waging a War on Christmas by the pro-Christmas lobby -- oh, whatever would I do if the all-powerful puckerbutts at the American Family Association called for a boycott of Savage  

Being a Callboy

0 Comments · Wednesday, December 14, 2005
Here's my problem: I got fired from my job at the beginning of the summer and, long story short, ended up escorting to pay the bills. Being a callboy in New York turned out to be not nearly as bad a  

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

1 Comment · Wednesday, December 7, 2005
I'm a 23-year-old straight male. Due to a rare autoimmune attack three years ago, I have been indefinitely confined to a wheelchair, paralyzed from the waist down. I was never sexually active before  

Really Mean Friend

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 30, 2005
My boyfriend, Jason, is having problems with a boy named Roger who is obsessed with him. But because Roger is friends with Jason and Jason's friends, Jason won't just tell him off. Roger had the aud  

Relative Danger

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 23, 2005
Am I out of bounds if I try to have a dialogue with my nephew about masturbation? He's 17 years old and I'm 52. I'm also a balanced bisexual male in a good marriage. I masturbate a lot "in private"  

Strap-on Strap-off

1 Comment · Wednesday, November 16, 2005
My boyfriend let me experiment on him with a strap-on. At first he didn't like it, but now he loves it. Now I want to have sex with another guy and watch him suck a real cock. How can I get him to t  

I Have This Friend

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 9, 2005
My stepdad is gay. He fell in love with and married my mom anyway, and they appear to have a strong relationship despite his sexual preference -- they love each other, had a baby together and seem t  

Wanting a Hot Husband

0 Comments · Wednesday, November 2, 2005
I've been with my guy for almost eight years. He wants sex way more often than I do, but I don't want it because I'm not attracted to his 80-pounds-overweight body. The one time I gently broke it to  

Divorce is not an option

0 Comments · Wednesday, October 26, 2005
My wife and I were married straight out of college. At the time I knew she suffered from a potentially debilitating mental disorder, so I came into the relationship with my eyes fully open. Since th  

Fair and Balanced

0 Comments · Wednesday, October 19, 2005
Any words of wisdom on girlfriends, boyfriends and spouses who claim to be GGG but systematically take away much of what they give by making it clear that they're not "into it" even as they fulfill